Fighting for custody: It's not just what you have that matters

Sadly, not all unions between two people work out. It is even sadder, when children are involved and you, as a parent, cannot stand the idea of living apart from them. You want custody.

While custody depends on many different factors, if you are fighting for custody, don't focus only on your good actions and exemplary behavior.

Your ex might be showing signs that could hint towards irresponsible parenting, such as driving under the influence (after a party, when picking up the kids to go back home from the Grandparents' house), leaving the kids alone at home during the evening and at night, or leaving the kids with other people (who are they anyway??) for an extended period of time. Of course, the age of the children plays an important part here. Remember other important points: Are the kids still going to school everyday? Are they doing well in school under your ex's care? Are they well fed and looking healthy? Are they still living at "home", where they are supposed to be?

You want to be able to prove these actions.

Custody battles are not easy on anyone, but if you believe your children will be best off with you, you need to prove your point.